Thursday, April 2, 2009

Value ALL of Your Emotions!

Emotions ARE our gold! They are our personal guidance! Literally, they tell us which direction we are heading with our manifestations! They are like our own personal, always correct "compasses"! Negative emotions are literally "warning bells" telling us, OK, time to turn around and head in the other direction, and good feeling emotions are telling us, YES, you're going in the right direction, keep going! Sounds simplistic yes, but it really is that simple! Now isn't that the most clever, coolest "tool" that was ever created naturally?! Such a perfect design this Universe, isn't it?!

We ALL have all the knowledge we could ever need to create anything we want and it's ALL within us!!! Our only work is to "course correct" by observing our feelings about the things we want, and then progressively practice more, and more thoughts that give us feelings of belief, happiness and expectation around them!

The important part is to pay attention to, and VALUE our emotions, ALL of them! Does no good to judge them, thinking we "shouldn't" have them. They're there, feeling bad about having the "bad ones" will get you more feeling bad, and we know where that goes with our manifestations .,,.....

Actually just the act of noticing your negative e-motions without judgement, and not trying to "not feel" them will allow them to move more easily! Try it, next time you feel bad about something say to yourself.....I am where I am, and it is what it is, and, "SO WHAT, BIG DEAL", it is what it is, and it's just temporarily where I am right now! I know it will shift, it always does! "E-motions" are always "In-motion", if I let them!

Also, try thinking of your negative feeling e-motions as opportunities! Yes, opportunities to make headway on our manifestation goals! Every time you really feel one of those "gut hits" of negativity, it's an opportunity to shift your feelings about whatever subject you're thinking about! And each time you shift your feelings "up" a little you are that much closer to having what you want, and pretty soon the Law of Attraction's "positive momentum" makes it easier and easier to shift, and then, eventually you feel so good about it that it has to appear!

So, next time you have one of those previously "dreaded" negative e-motion hits, get excited and say "Yeah, another awesome opportunity to get closer to having what I want!

Radical Freedom

So radical freedom sounds extreme doesn't it? I love that because I'm pretty extreme in my beliefs, it's either all or nothing for me! Anyway, I looked up radical in the dictionary and it came up with: Arising from or going to a root or source; basic: proposed a radical solution to the problem. And I said, Yes! that's what I do with my clients, get to the root of it!

When you really know the Law of Attraction you realize that it is radical freedom, meaning you are at cause for every person place or thing in your life and I mean EVERYTHING! Really! So the bad news is that YOU have to do the changing, not anybody else, and the really, really, really, did I say really(lol) good news is that; YOU have complete and utter control over every person, place, and thing that appears in your life!!!

When I really "got" this concept I was absolutely ecstatic! Wow, I have complete creative control, you mean nothing can hurt or impose itself on me unless I let it??? I can have all those things I've wanted for so long that I felt were impossible to have in the usual ways now?! I felt like I found the golden keys to the kingdom! Of course it took a while to figure out how to use the keys, but the overriding factor that makes it all so worthwhile is that I know that I am doing it all, I know what to do now, and if I keep at it I WILL get where I want to be, because it is all about me!

I don't have to make anybody or anything else do anything, think anything, be anything! And it doesn't matter what they think, how they feel, what they want, I can have what I want, and..... in the best way possible, even uplifting people in the process!!! Wow, what a relief, because honestly, I couldn't see any way to have what I want if I had to do it the other way, lol!

So, that's what "Radical Freedom" is, it's the freedom to be, do, and have what you really want, not what others want, not settle or compromise, what YOU really want in ALL areas of your life! It doesn't only work in one area and not the other, the Law of Attraction is very comforting in it's consistency. It's an inner change of perspective and feeling, not an outer. It's being willing to do the "work" to change how you feel and change your beliefs in every area and be radically FREE! But the really cool thing is that when you change how you see something, you then change how you feel about it, and then and only then, does the thing change on the outside!!! It's ALL about YOU and you CAN do it if you try!!! Really, really, really good news everybody!

Handle Your Health With the LOA!

.......This is a response I gave to someone who asked me how I stayed healthy no matter what I did or didn't do, and I'm here to tell you I do a lot of things on a regular basis that many think are "bad" for your health(I won't go into detail but let's just say I ALWAYS do whatever I feel like doing:)! Anyway I thought it would make for a good blog post that might help others in the health and LOA area....

Enjoy and I hope you get something of value from it :)!

First thing I'll tell you here is that I am really healthy! Oh yes I get an ache or pain once in a while, and maybe a headache but it's VERY temporary! I haven't had a cold in over 5 years, and can't ever remember getting the flu since I was maybe 10 yrs old, despite(or maybe in spite of:) my husband and son getting both of these things at least 2 or 3 times a year!

I consider myself having health "handled" because I don't fear anything around my health at all anymore! I know very clearly my health is a result of how I feel, and flow energy, no matter what I do or don't do, and nothing to be afraid of, because I can always change how I feel, no big deal! I tell you this not to "brag"(although I am proud of it:), but more to "up" the "evidence factor" in what I've written so you will believe and it will work even better for you!

So, my biggest, most dominant underlying belief is that it is the most natural thing in the world to be totally healthy. Anything else is just plain odd, and only temporary! I don't affirm "perfect health" in the conventional way, I just "assume" that's the way I am supposed to be!

Our bodies are built to balance, heal and rejuvinate themselves, and I am not saying this from a metaphysical perspective, but from "scientific biological fact" perspective(for all you "scientific evidence junkies";).....think how as soon as you cut your finger the blood rushes to the surface to clean and heal it and then it "naturally" scabs and heals itself! If it works on such small things as cuts, then of course it works with the "bigger" things "gone wrong", right?! Your body is constructed like a well oiled machine that is self regulating!

Doctors know this, they know that when they give you an antibiotic, the pill doesn't "cure" you, it just enables your body to better cure itself! That's why medicines work for some and not others!

And so based on this dominant belief of "Natural Health", I know that anything that seems to be going "wrong" in my body is only temporary, and all I need to do is get out of the way so my body can do it's natural work! And getting out of the way is doing the "emotional work"!

And How Do I Get Out of My Body's Way?
1. First of all if I do get some ailment, ache, or pain I don't resist it, I don't judge or beat up on myself for having it. I just let it be what it is, and maybe even use it as an excuse to do nothing and let go of all "burdens" of busyness! The world is not going to end if you don't participate:). Don't underestimate the power of this perspective either....what you resist, persists!

2. I also don't talk about it, dwell on it, trade notes with anybody else about it either. I just let it be, and don't make a big deal about it. I make it "NO BIG DEAL", just a temporary thing that will go away!

3. I do whatever feels good for me physically, take a pill, lay down, exercise, sleep, see a doctor etc...... I don't judge any of it, it's all "Gods" solutions :)!

4. I take any and all imbalances in my body as really really good information from my Inner Being(guidance), and I ask myself what this imbalance is telling me! I am very grateful for my body talking to me so clearly when my "thick head" isn't "listening" to what I am dwelling on! Cause, for there to be an imbalance in the body there HAS to be an imbalance in the mind!

5. Then I ask myself what's going on in my life that relates to this ailment. Like for instance, sometimes I get tightness in my neck and shoulders, and I KNOW it's relating to my feeling like something is blocking me or is a "pain in the neck".....

And then I go to "work" on making PEACE with whatever it is that is bothering me. And sometimes I can't make peace right then, so I ask my Inner Being to show me how(while I relax:) and give me any other info I may need.

*Also, I ask myself,(per Abraham) "how does this ailment" make me feel emotionally(not physically, although that could be good info too)....for instance being sick and stuck home for a week might make you feel frustrated, or even fearful(if you lose money from it etc...), and then I ask myself "where else in my life do I feel like this"? And that would be a place to "make peace" with too.

6. And this is probably the MOST important of all of them for continued good health and reinforcement of the belief in the "Natural Good Health" of your body; I do lists of positive aspects(also per Abraham) almost every day on my body, how strong it is, how very resilient, how well put together(all parts intact:) it is, things I like about it etc....

So, in essence: I truly believe it is natural and normal to be healthy. I don't make a big deal when I am not "perfect", I know it's only temporary. I do the "physical" thing that feels best to ME. I take it as very valuable info that gives me something to "work" with, when I am not "listening" closely enough to my thoughts and emotions. I ask my guidance system to help me out, and I do major positive aspect lists on my beautiful strong body that works so well for me!